When friends or strangers are kind to us we go above and beyond to reciprocate and tell them thank you. Why is it any different when it comes to our spouses or our mates? If anything we should be even more grateful for their kind gestures no matter how big or small. Women want to be loved and men want to be appreciated. When they go beyond what is normal or expected, we need to express sincere appreciation and not take it for granted. Someone else, some where in the world would die to have what you have. A strong, loving, healthy relationship is cumulative from hundreds of kind acts. What you won’t appreciate someone else will!